My life in 961 words.

I am a full time student at California Baptist University and I am proud to say that the school was made for me. I am definitely taking being a Lancer seriously. I am currently double majoring in Spanish as well as English. My goal is to teach higher education and be an important person whom is inspiring to someone, anyone. I am BIG on education. If you’re a high school graduate and you’re not in college I will probably ask you why? I might give you a malicious look and I will most definitely attempt to persuade you to go to your local community college and register for a life changing experience.

I work two part time jobs both of which I love dearly. It’s not easy being a full time student and an employee at two different educational places. Time management is a must in my agenda. I also need to plan every thing in advance. Even the times I will consume meals. However those aren’t the hardest things I’ve done. Currently I struggle every night with thoughts about this upcoming Fall. I am expecting my first child this November. I am so happy, that I have decided to keep the gender a secret until birth. I figured why bother knowing if my baby will live his or her life as a male or female when no matter what he or she is I am biologically programmed to unconditionally love him or her, and that is what I shall do for the rest of my days.

I have a boyfriend whom I love dearly…sometimes (just kidding) I love him at all times. I really think that opposites attract because if I were to tell you our story I’m sure you’d be shocked. We’re like day and night. I’m day though, he can be night. He likes to stay home and I like to go out. He is into technology and I refer to myself as ‘vintage’. I like to be in bed by sunset (well not really but if I could be in bed I would) I normally fall asleep by ten pm. He stays up till sunrise and then wonders why he’s exhausted during the day. LOL. We have a million differences of which I can only name a few but our differences are what mend us together. I feel as if God has truly given me everything I always wished not to have just to help me grow and become an enhanced individual. My boyfriend challenges me daily and he tests my patience, time management skills and ability to be flexible. I must always have a plan B with him. I never really imagined my home to be a space filled with technological advances and loud constructive machines and I can honestly say that’s where it is headed. I always considered having a library with tons of books which I’ve collected from second hand stores all in alphabetical order on tall white bookshelves. I can frankly say that that’s not going to happen. The room in my visions has now been revamped to the room in his visions. The room will probably be known as an office or his computer room. My book shelf will be filled with the latest HD DVD’s and new Starcraft game. I am certain that machine he calls ‘computer’ will probably sit away from the window (for security purposes) and my honey will have two monitors in addition to that super slick mouse on an overly sized mouse pad. I see a small bookshelf in the room but I also see my white NOOK on top of a coffee table. I am confident this sounds like the most horrific story but I am here to reassure you that it isn’t. My story is a love story. If I didn’t like it I wouldn’t be in the relationship. My honey is a modern day prince charming. I wanted a Taylor Swift CD and rather than buying me the CD for our anniversary he also purchased us tickets to her concert. When I get hungry at 2:30am he’s the only one whom I know of that will go to the local Jack-in-the-box drive thru to satisfy my chicken sandwich craving. Might I add that he won’t only get me the sandwich he’ll also get me potato wedges and/or jalapeno poppers just in case I throw a fit for them last minute. He puts up with my last minute plans and he’s patient with everything I book for us to do. Whenever I have a crazy idea rather than telling me it’s horrible he gives me space to figure it out on my own. Whenever I lay uncomfortably because the lights are on in the room there’s only one man who I can count on to turn them off even if he’s three rooms away. I needed $5 transferred into my bank account to eat those nasty gooey chili cheese fries I was craving and rather than saying you shouldn’t be eating fast-food or bitch to me about my eating habits he transfers $40 into my account.  

We’re not the perfect couple as a matter of fact I’d say we’re the most dysfunctional couple in California but we’re perfect for each other. Believe me when I say that if there is anyone whom I’d give my life for it’d be him. God is my strength, He is my guidance, He lights my path, and He is my King. But Hugo, Hugo is my solid wall to lean on, he is my mirror his voice echoes back at me whenever I’m wide of the mark, he walks the passageway with me and he is my only prince charming. I am complete and it is thanks to him.